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So, many of you may have wondered what the hell the whole facebook crap about New Year's eve was all about.
One of our friends was holding a party. I noticed the invite. Then poof out of nowhere, neither Michael nor I could access the party, and the party had gone completely private. We thought maybe the party was canceled, since it was nowhere to be found. Find out from another person that it is still going on, and we've been uninvited. Turns out it wasn't that friend, RPG, who uninvited us. Without his knowledge, my ex, Ben, had gone and made the party private and uninvited the two of us.
Around that time when we were still oblivious to this situation, I had offered to buy lyric tickets off of Ben for Marriage of Figaro. For one, it was somewhat of a charity offering- he didn't have enough money to fly back home with his family and that would have given him the money to do so. For another, I wanted Michael to see a damn good opera. So the exchange occurred but I found that he had give me tickets to not one but THREE different operas with no explanation. I went and passed him the money that I had agreed on beforehand for the tickets, with no word about the extra ones, waiting to see if he would say anything about them. Otherwise, I would have addressed it when I saw him in real life again tomorrow at Zoo lights.
Turns out- they were given to us as an apology for his actions. Note that not a word was said when they were given, and we were still uninvited, and the party was still private. It would have gone unnoticed if it wasn't for one of our other friends mentioning something about it.
Ben's excuse? He forgot to tell us. He forgot about the whole matter.
So Ben bribes us to keep quiet about his wrongdoing, and now is apologetic as hell about it. He kept refusing over facebook chat to take the tickets back. But he's getting the two extra pairs. Tomorrow. After repeating to him that we would not accept his "peace offering". Only after writing to him via facebook that he NEEDS TO STOP HARASSING US did he actually shut the hell up.
I'm livid. He's the PRESIDENT OF JMAC. And he ACTS LIKE THIS. Forgive him? No. No, not for this. I've gotten harassment from him before, about how he hates me, and shit talk to my face that led to many tears. But this is the last straw.
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